About Me
I became a mom before I became myself.
Not in the way I planned. Not in the timing I expected.
But in a way that completely changed me.
I became a mom before I became myself.
Hey, I’m Mireya
Why I Created This Space
I needed a place like this when I first became a mom.
Somewhere real. Somewhere honest. Somewhere that didn’t make me feel like I was the only one struggling in silence.
So I created it.
This blog is where I share:
- The messy parts
- The overwhelming days
- The growth behind the scenes
- And the small moments that make it all worth it
Because motherhood isn’t just one thing.
It’s everything at once.
The Shift
Somewhere in the middle of the chaos, something changed.
I realized I don’t have to choose between being a mom and becoming who I’m meant to be.
I can do both.
Not perfectly. Not all at once.
But slowly, in my own time.
Motherhood didn’t end my story — it became part of it.
The Part No One Talks About
Motherhood is beautiful.
But it’s also heavy sometimes.
There were moments I felt like I lost myself before I even had the chance to find myself. Like my life went in a completely different direction than I imagined.
I questioned everything:
- Who am I now?
- Will I ever feel like me again?
- Did I lose the version of life I thought I’d have?
And for a while… I didn’t have answers.
This Space Is For You
If your life doesn’t look the way you thought it would…
If you feel overwhelmed, lost, or like you’re still trying to find yourself…
You’re not alone in that.
You don’t have to have it all figured out.
You’re allowed to grow while raising them too.
My Story!
I became a mom at 18 — right after graduating high school.
I had no real plan. I thought I’d have time to figure out who I was first… what I wanted… where life was going.
But everything shifted almost overnight.
Now at 21, I’m a mom of three under three — and at the same time, I’m still learning who I am. As a woman, as a wife, and as a mother.
Some days I feel strong and grounded.
Other days, I feel overwhelmed and unsure.
Most days… it’s a mix of both.
I’m still figuring things out.
I’m learning how to show up for my kids while also showing up for myself. I’m learning how to grow, even in the middle of the mess. I’m learning that it’s okay to not have everything together.
And honestly… I’m becoming someone stronger than I ever expected.
Not because everything is easy — but because it’s not.